Smooth Sailing: Crafting a Neurodivergent Morning Routine for Kids
- Caroline Baughman

- Sep 11, 2023
- 3 min read
Research and studies show us morning routines hold the power to set a positive tone for the day, especially for neurodivergent individuals. Let's delve deeper into creating a morning routine that's tailored to your child's needs.

Morning Routine Basics
Before we dive into the specific activities, let's lay the groundwork for an effective morning routine for your neurodivergent child.
1. Predictability and Visuals
Neurodivergent children thrive on predictability. Create a visual schedule or chart that outlines the morning routine step by step. Utilize images or icons to help your child understand the sequence of activities.
2. Sensory-Friendly Environment
Ensure the morning space is sensory-friendly. Pay attention to lighting, temperature, and the availability of sensory tools that help your child stay comfortable and engaged.
3. Empowerment through Choices
Empower your child by allowing them to make choices within the routine. For example, let them choose their breakfast or select an outfit for the day. This fosters independence and reduces morning stress.

Morning Routine Activities:
Now, let's take a closer look at each morning routine activity, details make them even more beneficial:
Wake-Up Ritual
Start the day with a unique wake-up ritual. This could involve singing a favorite song, sharing a gentle morning snuggle, or presenting a cherished stuffed animal. A consistent, special moment sets a positive tone.
Sensory Play and Exploration
Incorporate sensory play and exploration into the routine. Spend a few minutes engaging your child with activities like playdough sculpting, finger painting, or exploring sensory materials. These activities not only awaken their senses but also promote creativity and learning.
Visual Schedules and Communication
Refer to the visual schedule you've crafted. Use it as a guide to help your child navigate through tasks like brushing teeth, getting dressed, and washing hands. Visual cues reduce anxiety and enhance understanding. Encourage your child to communicate their feelings and preferences during this time.

Breakfast Time: A Sensory Experience
Transform breakfast into a sensory-rich experience. Encourage your child to interact with their food by touching, smelling, and tasting different items. Look at getting different textures into the food as well since things like crunchy or crispy foods, give oral sensory stimulation.
Transition Tools and Timers
Transitions between activities can be challenging for neurodivergent children, and adults. Use timers or visual countdowns to signal when it's time to move from one task to another. Transition tools offer a sense of control and predictability.
Pack and Go with Independence
If your child attends school or daycare, involve them in packing their bag. Allow them to choose items to bring, reinforcing their independence and decision-making skills. This fosters a sense of ownership over their daily activities.

Farewell Ritual and Smooth Transition
Create a meaningful farewell ritual, such as a special hug, handshake, or a favorite phrase, to help your child transition to their daily activities outside the home. A smooth, loving goodbye sets the stage for a positive day ahead. Be sure that you never sneak away. If your child has a particularly difficult time, you can even try writing a heart on your child's hand as well as your own as a way to remember each other throughout the day.
That's it!
Crafting a neurodivergent morning routine for children is a journey of care and creativity. By incorporating sensory play, visual schedules, and connection, you're not only setting the stage for a successful day but also promoting your child's independence and confidence. Embrace the uniqueness of your child's needs, and watch as their mornings become smoother and more enjoyable for everyone involved.






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